Several years ago one of our students found her way to my office. She was a bright young woman, gifted in communication, passionate about justice and wondering if her prolific social life was serving her well. Having had countless conversations along these lines I was fairly confident that a comment about personal piety and the perils of drinking would probably put an end to the discussion I said simply, “I’ve always thought that God is much angrier with the hangover than the party.” She responded with great wit by saying with a smile, “I didn’t know God and I were thinking similar thoughts,” and our discussion continued.
I told her that a hangover is a waste of life. Minutes and moments and often hours of time that God would want to use to bring light into this world wasted lying on a couch wanting the light to go away. And beyond that I pushed her to consider if perhaps a hangover is even an act of injustice. When dying people around the world would give anything to live until the light of morning in order to have one more minute with their child, when martyrs are praying for one more moment to live their mission and when hostages are hoping for one more hour to fulfill their hopes and dreams isn’t a hangover like full people taking food from the hungry?
Because she was still listening I continued by saying, “As I have walked with Jesus I have become utterly convinced that God wants to use the lives of his people and I am more confident than ever that anything that wastes or squanders the gifts he has given for his mission is an act of injustice because it robs from the world what is necessary for it to be whole, well and complete.” And the young woman said to me, “Well that makes my decision pretty simple.” And she gave up wasting her life drinking and she went into ministry. This is a true story and I wish I could tell you it works that way every time.
Ephesians 5:18 says, “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.” The word debauchery literally means ‘an abandoned life’ or ‘wasteful living’ and a similar phrase is used of the prodigal son in Luke 15:13 when after the son is given an inheritance from his father he goes and scatters it to the wind, wasting his resources on temporary pleasures and wasting the mission of his life in a pen full of pigs.
God has a mission for our lives and God is not interested in his resources being wasted or abandoned or scattered to the wind. And so he says to us, “Don’t be wasted.” Don’t let your life be wasted on things that are temporary. Don’t abandon your mission while you pursue desires that will never satisfy. Don’t let the gifts that God has given you be scattered to the wind when they could be used to help make the world more whole, more well and more complete.
Next week marks the beginning of Lent, a season in the life of the church where the people of God intentionally fast from temporary pleasures in order to regain their focus on what pleases God. This year during the season of Lent we are piloting a campaign on campus called, “Don’t be wasted” and during the seven weeks that begin at Ash Wednesday (Feb 22) and end with Easter (April 8) we are inviting the campus to use their lives with intention so that none of God’s good gifts will be wasted.
University Ministries would like to invite all who would like to participate to join us in seven weeks of three commitments. 1. We are calling our campus to abstain from drinking, to not be wasted at all. 2. We are inviting the campus to be filled with the Word of God by committing to the memorization of seven scripture passages. 3. We are encouraging every North Parker to reclaim one additional area of their life for God’s mission. Perhaps you have wasted God’s mission by participating in gossip or bitterness or jealousy. Perhaps you have wasted God’s mission by racism, sexism or pessimism. Perhaps you have wasted God’s mission by wasteful spending, mindless thinking, or useless web surfing. During this season we challenge you to consider where you are most wasteful and we invite you to abstain from that behavior so that God’s mission in you would not be wasted.